Demeanor
Americans are much more assertive that most international
visitors. They use words as tools to express their opinions and to
accomplish goals. Speaking for yourself and attempting to persuade
someone to adopt your view are not only not taboo, but expected. The
United States has a rather individualistic society, with less social
pressure to conform. As a result, you will need to become more
assertive and to speak out on your own behalf. Take the initiative and
volunteer information that will be of interest. In an interview, talk
about your goals and accomplishments. An American idiom
expresses this requirement succinctly: If you don't toot your own
horn, who will?
Accordingly, Americans begin a discussion with a focus on
accomplishments and concrete facts, and later proceed to the
abstract. So you should begin any conversation or proposal with the
most important information. Be direct, and reserve the small talk for
later. To quote another American idiom, you have
to put your best foot forward.
It is ok to criticize someone's opinion, as long as you are providing
constructive criticism.
Eye contact is also important. It is not a sign of disrespect, but
instead an indication of openness, honesty, and enthusiasm.